01 The nature of our collective is not pathological and we do not claim to be such. Please refrain from referring to us as a DID / OSDD system or any of our headmates as "alters", "fragments", "parts", etc. You can refer to members of our main system as soulbonds, headmates, or ghosts. In referring to our kin system, these members can be called headmates or kintypes. For Lavi's subsystem, the phrase "alter" is acceptable when referring to his headmates exclusively.
02 The body IS neurodivergent in other ways, such as having ADHD, autism, OCD, and some other stuff, and it has experienced trauma, but this is not what caused the system to form. The body is also a 21+ adult and we prefer to avoid interacting with minors in most spaces.
03 Collectively, we are a pariogenic gateway magistien system (see the faq). The main system is comprised of soulbonds who have passed on from their origin, much like a sort of rest stop in limbo. Soulbonds will come and go. We also have a metagenic sidesystem inhabited by the crux's kintypes, and a traumagenic bondsystem belonging to a headmate with DID. Lately there have been rumblings of a new layer taking shape in the form of a parastrata. More to come on that when we have more information.
04 The crux (alternative to "Host") is largely front-locked, though headmates can still co-front occasionally. However, this can be very difficult and exhausting, so our headmates primarily communicate through the crux with proxies.
05 There is a second layer to our system that exists as the crux's soulscape where he communicates exclusively with a Kankri soulbond who still exists as a ghost in his universe's dream bubbles. This layer is inaccessible by any other system member and Kankri is unable to front without exerting immense energy in order to possess the body.
06 We do have members who are minors or ageslide to a younger age, so please be conscious of what content you're sharing when speaking with a specific headmate. Ages and age ranges can be found on the members page, and if you're ever unsure, please ask.
07 Some collective system boundaries are as follows:
- Always ask before using pet names for anyone.
- We find it difficult to use and interpret tone indicators. It is more helpful if you directly state the intent behind your message.
- Doubles are welcome to interact with anyone in the system, but we are wary of anyone who claims to be our canonmate (i.e. someone we shared a timeline with) due to past experiences. It may take us a long time to trust you enough to believe that.
- Members of our system no longer partake in system travel due to past experiences. If you claim someone in our system travelled to yours, we will know you are lying and you will be blocked.
08 We have recently developed a subsystem comprised of the crux's kintypes. These past lives still share the crux's innerworld body, but now exist autonomously within their own innerworld. You can find information about these system members on the crux's kin carrd (member page in the works).